Hotwife Confessions: Kayleigh Tells Her Husband

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Until things calm down a little, do yourself a favor and distance yourself from your wife's actions. Focus on doing what's best for the kids right now and DO NOT talk to her about your relationship. She doesn't want to hear it anyway. Focus on eating and getting rest. Be as clear as possible. I’ve been married for a few months (not even up to a year). I guess I’m cheating on my husband because he didn’t really meet my expectation. Don’t ask me what that means – because I am still figuring it out myself. He’s not enough for me in everything. My present worry is how secure (financially) I am going to be, with him. I don’t know why I married him. I know, it sounds foolish, but that’s the truth, Dave. I still can’t name one reason why I married him. Of course, I love him, but what kind of love it is – I don’t know. The man I am having an affair with, gives me GHs 2, 500, every two weeks. It’s been Seven (7) months now, and he’s still wiring that amount into my account. According to him, I deserve it. I deserve to be pampered. He makes me happy, Dave. Sometimes, I wish I could give him a baby instead.” My ex showed up at my apartment in tears, crying her eyes out about how her husband cheated on her. She wanted revenge. So she got it with me.” — Shane, 29 This is quite hard to explain and describe, but it is easier to spot it. Women always love to be found attractive. More so, they love to be a woman of a strong and a confident man. So in being a hotwife, women stand the pleasure of getting the share of both worlds. You find that your husband builds self-esteem because they find you attractive and obviously because they are strong and confident they will allow you go out and spread your wings, so to speak. Through these women becomes more aware of themselves, more sexually adventurous and starts to take pride in their appearance. My wife wore her little yellow bikini to swim in - and found that she was quite a hit with all these young guys!

Me "Come on, you're not this open usually with me and I love it, give a hint as to what you had in mind that got your horny" If she is so wanting to go wild and explore, then I believe the responsibility talk won't work on her. Although you cannot control her, you can control yourself. Open marriage is really a bad idea for you. It will twist you and your kids, and you don't want to go there. I know you are going through some turmoil, but you cannot give up your integrity. WHO are you? WHAT kind of person are you? Why on earth you agree to have an open marriage? what is your vision and goal for your life? Before your wife's recommentation, did you ever want an open marriage too? compromising won't solve anything. Learn all about hotwifing in this tell all ultimate guide. It is true to say that women tend to get raw deal when it comes to finding great information and secrets of being a hotwife. This is because the information available on internet is written by men to other men and the material that is written for women is all about what they get up to rather than how to make it work. In other words, it is also written primarily for men. This piece will narrow down at hotwifing basics as well as the pleasure that women get from it. I said, ** no!....there are so many guys walking around here with at least half a ** because of the way you look in it! I was 32 years old when I began posting my story, a professional consultant living in the UK; well-paid, hard working, but with enough free time to enjoy a very active and enjoyable social life. I'd been married for a little over nine years to Martin, a successful businessman whose attributes would make me the envy of many women - he’s intelligent, witty, kind, and very competent at almost anything he turns his hand to. I'll state quite openly that I love him dearly.Rage. Anger. Embarrassment. etc... I'm on an emotional roller-coaster right now. I suspect that she isn't telling me everything about the incident, and I suspect it is with one guy who she has already denied and said it is someone else. I also suspect that it was more than once. I'm guessing twice based on evidence. I'm really mad about this. We had just had a vasectomy reversal done in the hopes of having more kids and I think this happened while I was on bed rest and couldn't go out with the group. I slept with a married woman on a cruise, even though her entire family was sleeping a few cabins away.” — Bradley, 50 verifyErrors }}{{ message }}{{ /verifyErrors }}{{ Consulting a lawyer sounds a good idea. She isn't going to change unless she sees some real consequences of her stupid behaviour. She is going to a dark road, you should consider to protect yourself and your kids, not go along with her. IMO, let her have her choices, freely (don't include you), IF the loving caring talking won't work on her.

Right now you are emotionally all over the place. I'll try to give you some enlightenment and guidance based upon my experience. She wore a simple button up blouse, some sandals and the jeans miniskirt that was a hand-me-down from her younger sister who said it was too short for her. The ONLY way your marriage can be saved (which most of us I’m sure thinks that’s a very bad idea) would be for you to end it and her to do everything in her power to stop it. Whether you think you want her or not you still have to go full steam for a divorce. Think of it as tough love if you are having a hard time because of your attachment. These are not things you want to hear but if you follow everyone’s advice you will be much better off long term. I told her that while she is still young ad can act young, but she still needs to be a responsible adult who is married and has four kids. If there is a problem or something can be improved then she needs to communicate. I thought she had learned that from her previous counseling she had with a psychologist. We had even done a little couples counseling with that doc and practiced communication.

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If she's wants to stay married to you, YOU need to take charge, "Man Up", and dictate what needs to happen for YOU TO EVEN CONSIDER staying married. If she's doesn't want to be married, fine, let her go. It will hurt like hell for a time, but you will move on, heal, and do perfectly fine without her. It doesn't sound like you would be happy in the situations she is proposing---do you really think you could watch her let another man "do" her, especially while you watched. That isn't much of a mge. You better read and RE-read Chrome Barracuda's post to you. Women don't want weak, whipped men ... and that is exactly how you are acting. REMEMBER, in a relationship, the one who cares the LEAST has all the power ... and you have ceded ALL power in this relationship to your W. I really debated posting here but will because I am so sorry that you are in this situation. You basically put his need before yours, which is often but not always admirable in a marriage, but it was something you didn't want to do, don't want to do, and now your marriage is changed forever.

The only ultimatum I threw out there was that before any other type of relationship could even be discussed, we would need to work on our own relationship. I told her that I expect her to communicate and talk to me and that I wouldn't let her walk all over me. This is going to take some time to figure out what we really want, both for ourselves and each other, and I told her it might end up in divorce, especially if she does something even remotely like this again. She needs to accept that. If you want to R., then lay out the boundaries, and see where it goes. Remember you cannot control what she does, you can only control what you do. If she won't stop the cheating, you can't do anything about it, but YOU can file for a D. That might just wake her out of this fog that she is in. Any attempt at this stage to try to save your relationship will fail. You cannot be nice to her or you will be seen as weak and she will lose the last bit of respect for you. You have to stop thinking with your feelings and go on autopilot with a plan. Be cold and direct with her and avoid being emotional as possible. Tell her it’s over and you are pursuing a divorce, period. It is now her job to save the marriage by convincing you not to do it by ACTIONS, not promises.Homeschooling has been her idea all along and I've supported it and help teadh and I've seen the benefits in our children. The second oldest is autistic and I shudder at the thought of sending him to a public school. I've always supported her life outside of the kids. I've encouraged her to find friends. But as another poster said, she didn't find very good ones. Karate was her outlet for finding friends that don't talk about kids, but it led her astray. My husband was transferred to a different region to work. He visits home on weekends and on holidays. That’s the genesis of my affair. Distance caused it. I know he’s probably also warming his bed as I speak. I wouldn’t be bothered if he’s cheating. All I pray he does is to practice safe sex, because that’s what I am doing in his absence. I am currently in love with both men.”

My 18 yr old wife came to the Army post where I was training. On w/e passes we stayed at a Travel Lodge for some much needed ** - for both of us! She was a hot little SoCal girl! What do you want? I know, I realize that you think my confession is not a confession at all, because you think you already know the whole story. But you don’t know the whole story. The whole story is ... more interesting. Women who are completely off limits. Women who should want nothing to do with them — but are so attracted to them that she forgets her vows and gives into temptation.

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That night I asked her in bed - "does it feel a little strange to feel the breeze moving around up in there .....so far up between your legs?!"