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When performing the handjob, both the giver and the receiver should be in a nice comfortable position, such as lying down in bed, and start slowly. Sexual partners can explore and figure out what each other likes best through communication and touch each time they have sex, but for beginners, kissing and a bit of pillow talk might be a nice place to start. From there, try kissing your partner on the lips, then slowly moving down, stopping to nibble and tease the nipples. To increase the tenderness, remember that a hand job can be part of still nuzzling, kissing, and stroking other parts of the body. You can stimulate both partners with touch and kisses even if only one of them is getting the hand job." The new version is a lot smaller (hence the “Mini”), and it functions as a phallus ring with extra bells and whistles. It wraps around the base of the phallus and has three vibrating motors—two on the sides and one on the top. The body is semi-rigid but flexible enough to comfortably fit around an erect phallus. WIRED reviewer Eric Ravenscraft says it's best for solo use or penetrative sex, where it can rest (and vibrate) between you and a partner. You can control it from the app, so you don't need to worry about trying to slip your hand between you and a partner to change the speed or intensity. Got a question about sex that you're too embarrassed to ask? In the online sex misinformation crisis, getting accurate and reliable answers about sex is more difficult than ever before. Mashable is here to answer all your burning sex questions — from the weird and wonderful, to the graphic and gory. Think of us as your sexy agony aunts.
The sex tech industry has conditioned us to think of toys in terms of male and female, penis and vagina, but that’s reductive, inaccurate, and contributes to a larger narrative about the relationship between genitals and gender. It’s unhelpful and I have a lot of feelings about it. We opt to be as specific as possible and use anatomical terms to describe individual erogenous zones—and there are way more than just P and V.
Power Strokers: Power strokers are sometimes called motorized masturbators, or guybrators, says Bobby Box, a Lovehoney certified sex educator. “These may be similar in appearance to strokers but have vibrating components or sleeves that move up and down with a motorized asset,” says Dr. Lehmiller. “Some are hands-free, while others need to be held in place. These masturbators are sometimes remote-controllable and designed to offer scroll, anal, and/or prostate stimulation at the same time.” Some motorized masturbators include the Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo and the Arcwave Ion. Who is a masturbator good for?
Not sure where to start? Let your goals guide you. Are you trying to reproduce a specific feeling (intercourse? a blow job?), or are you seeking a totally new sensation like vibration or texture? Do you prefer the control of holding the toy, or do you want a toy that leaves you hands-free? Will you use the masturbator alone or during sex (in which case, Dr. Lehmiller suggests an open-ended sleeve that can be combined with oral stimulation)? “There are a lot of options out there, so having some clarity around what you’re looking for can help you narrow down the choices,” he adds. Other hands-free delights include suction dildos that you can attach to the floor or shower wall, and ‘ride’, with multiple vaginal and anal options to choose from Lovehoney. Now for the fun part. To start the handjob, figure out together where this handjob is going to lead. Leach says that whether a handjob is just a handjob and will be taken to climax, or if it’s going to be part of more extensive play leading to intercourse, is important to discuss beforehand so there are no surprises. "Pressure is also important in handjobs. Speak to your partner before, during and after the handjob about what kind of touch, grip and speed they like," she advises.
Strokers: Strokers (a.k.a. masturbation sleeves) fit around or over the penis and mimic the feeling of a vagina or anus (and sometimes even resemble body parts). Some strokers are open on one end, while others are closed. Many are textured on the inside, providing additional stimulation to the penis head, shaft, or both. These textures “add types of stimulation that a person's hand alone wouldn't give,” says Queen. Popular strokers include the Fleshlight and Tenga Egg. Leach recommends grabbing some lube to make things easier. "Lubrication is such a great thing to add to all manual stimulation, and I consider it essential. It can increase stimulation, add in new sensations, and help to create a glide that gives a new range of motions and tempos," she says. Try a lube that offers a tingly sensation to see if this adds more pleasure for the receiver.
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